While deliberately provocative and extreme, this post’s underlying message is pretty simple… appear as the opposite of what you are.
Rich? Look poor. Poor? Look rich. You want to be treated as the inverse… harmless and underestimated. It doesn’t take much life experience to grasp this paradox. People are far more motivated by hate and envy than by admiration for beauty or greatness.
That said, these replies are incredible displays of philosophical and cultural LARPing. Get offline (ironic how we all make fun of each other yet are all online doing it).
Funny how it mirrors the crowd that mocks “Fourth Turning” ideas… the Western civilization anti-dilution champions lamenting lost decorum… insisting we must “inspire the masses” through individual displays of high-brow culture.
Likely the same voices recite the classic “hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create hard times…”
History is littered with examples of individual displays of high-brow culture and ostentation (not just impersonal buildings or city planning) breeding resentment, revolution, and ruin. Roman patricians’ lavish villas, exotic banquets, and flaunted wealth in the late Republic… denounced by Cato and others as moral decay… fueled populist rage and helped tear apart the Republic. Then you have Versailles and how the French aristocracy’s public luxury helped spark 1789. Yet another with the Gilded Age… extravagance drew populist backlash then too.
Bottom line… just be like Adam Sandler.
The biggest financial flex imaginable is not caring about material status symbols and keeping non-essential spending to the bare minimum.
I've seen so many takes about the importance of dressing well (the guy who tells you to wear a suit on an airplace-- lol) or buying the right watch or showing up to an event with an elite whip...
All terrible advice
The higher NW and liquidity you have... the more slovenly and ridiculous you should appear in your day to day comings and goings.