Yup. The patriarchy gets blamed too much. When you start looking into behavioral studies, this is just how a lot of women are even without a man being a factor lol.
Many of us can honestly say that the main people to be mean to us was girl classmates, female relatives, women at work, even female strangers, but it is taboo online to say it and if it is acknowledged, it’s still blamed on the patriarchy. Some women are awful all on their own.