.@RichardHeartWin - a man with a vision, misunderstood his whole life, but with a specific purpose to fulfil, you learned to focus on the task at hand and disregard the noise. Your passion for truth and righteousness was misunderstood as provocation and hostility, your confidence in your craft as being self absorbed and egotistical… and your desire to help others rise up to their potential as having personal agendas and ulterior motives… Don’t get dismayed, brother… there are some of us that truly see you. The ones that perceive with clarity, we usually don’t say much, but we are here. The loudest in the room are often the most imbecile, but what you have set to accomplish will ripple into the lives of many pure hearted and benevolent people, #PulseChain will be a phenomenal force in the world as things continue to unfold collectively. And I know you aren’t doing all of this purely to get the recognition, you’re doing it because it’s right and necessary… but you will get the props you deserve. I look forward to the moment where the world gives you your flowers, man. You deserve it. So here’s a quick ode to you, my way of giving you some credit where it’s due. You’ve inspired me, helping me to tune into a better world; a future that isn’t consumed by greed and domination… and that is something that money cannot buy. Thank you for playing your part and doing what you can, regardless of whether it’s convenient for you or not. I can’t wait to celebrate y(our) victory. 🫡

Always remember she fell in love wit the nigga you spent your life creating not da shit she think she want. Bitch don’t even know what they wanna eat

You can't have the intimacy you crave if you avoid the conflict you fear.

If only you knew how much someone had to hurt their own feelings to accommodate your perspective, you might treat them differently.

Everybody's grown until it's time to communicate, apologize or tell the truth.

men 3 months after they put a woman first

Saying "I love you" and discussing a future with your partner, then abruptly leaving their life , it's one of the cruelest things you can do to another human being. And no,your childhood trauma doesn't justify blindsiding someone who trusted you.

Exactly. Trauma explains the panic. It doesn’t excuse the blindsiding. Communicate like an adult before you detonate the relationship.

the pain of knowing i can love someone through all their flaws, yet feeling like i have to be flawless to be loved in return.

If she is more obsessed with how she treats you rather than how you treat her, she is a special soul you should look after. Simply put: this is a woman with genuine empathy who really loves you and wants to pour light into you - she isn't just obsessed with how you make her feel.

Women literally cannot understand anything that isn’t directly tied to being a woman, which is why I think the whole idea of emotional intelligence and emotional maturity is often misused. To them “emotional maturity” sounds like, “I don’t understand masculinity or what it entails, so you need to think and act more like a woman for me to understand you.” That’s why you will see women encouraging men to be more vulnerable, emotional, and expressive….not just because it benefits the man, but because it makes his behavior easier for them to interpret through a framework they already understand. This is why when single women raise their sons, they encourage emotional habits more common in girls, which can lead to boys who are overly emotional or dependent…often called “mama’s boys.” Men, on the other hand, usually understand both male and female expectations better, which is why fathers tend to guide their children more clearly. This is why strong father-child relationships always shape kids in traditional ways: daddy’s girls grow into more feminine women, and father’s sons grow into more masculine men.

You don’t love anybody you’re not willing to be hated by, because to love them properly is to tell them things they will not like or immediately appreciate, but will genuinely benefit from hearing. The lag between your insight, and their realisation of your rightness is the tax you pay in loss of favour, ingratitude and increased tension until you realign. So when a person says "give me the brutal truth, I don't want you to sugarcoat anything" They are, actually, in a very non-obvious way, asking you to love them. Because they want you to care enough for them to give them precisely what they need, whilst risking contempt and a loss of favour. They are asking you to make a bet on them, and take a risk - that they can handle what you say, and won't punish you or otherwise become your enemy for having done so - for having told them things that may be genuinely upsetting for them, or destabilising to them. And that even if they can't handle it and will react poorly, that they are worth taking that level of abuse from simply to convey to them intimate truths they really need to hear. They are, essentially, asking you to put their self-interest above your own sociopolitical gain. And why would you do that for someone you don't at least, on one level or another, have some love for? Why would they and their mess be worth the risk and the effort and bother for you? Why not just tell them what they want to hear, so you can get what you want from them without dealing with the hassle of them? Precisely. They want you to love them. To indulge them is to do so.

people will deadass say they love you and treat you in ways that don’t align with love at all

Toxic relationships can turn into healthy connections. But it takes serious, persistent dedication to healing from the past, forgiving each other, & not repeating the same mistakes. You have to truly want better for another & work towards mending the brokenness.

Chiron is about to ingress into Taurus. By that I mean very, very soon. By 6/19, next Friday. We aren’t entirely done with Aries, we’ll experience it again via retrograde into next year. However this is the beginning of the end of a healing cycle that began way back in 2018. One of autonomy, independence, aggression, action, and ultimately “the self”. With Chiron dancing the final seconds of Aries, a sense of urgency may be felt with the 29° activated. Identifying: how we hurt ourselves, how our actions impact our wounds, our expression of “I AM”, in what ways we’ve been forced to face things hyper autonomously, what we can do differently, and how many times do we actively run ourselves into a brick wall — before the pain becomes unbearable and enough becomes enough. Patience is a struggle with Chiron in Aries, and jumping the gun can be a theme, along with the brutal reality of having to try again with the memory of the wound still lingering. It’s been a long run, and heavily cardinal influenced people probably feel as though they’ve fought their own war. Well I’m here to tell you: the war is almost over.

Only dark empaths will survive the apocalypse