You're good. I promise, no matter where you are in your journey, you're good.
I've watched clients reach the pinnacles of their industries, and I've watched clients hit depths lower than the Mariana Trench. Many of them have experienced both! No matter how much it sucks when the times are bad, there's always an opportunity for growth. The trick is to force yourself to not fall for the tricks of victimhood and self-pity. Perspective is everything.
Here's a dose of perspective for you (one I give to myself often): Business challenges are nothing compared to the challenges facing an 8-year-old with leukemia. And that bald child is waking up every day and working her ass off just to have a shot at life itself. There isn't a single business problem you face that she wouldn't immediately trade her disease for if she could.
No whining. No complaining. No dramatizing on social media. Just fighting with all she has to get what she wants. We could all use a little dose of that spirit. It's so easy to ride up the relative scale of pain in our modern world. We look around and see an endless line of lies and performative nonsense on social media: The latest get-rich-quick scheme, the "one thing" that will transform your life, the "easy" path to the top-shelf clients in your industry, the tears streaming down the face of someone who just experienced the professional equivalent to stubbing their toe.
It's a 24/7 drip of bullshit designed to make you think you're the only one who could be such a terrible, awful, incapable moron that you'd lose a client or make a strategic miscalculation. Or that the professional world was supposed to be as easy as those gurus promised, and setbacks are tragedies. GTFOH. These are the costs of doing anything great. And, no matter what anyone else tells you, building a business that actually matters is one of greatest challenges you will ever face. It's what makes it so damned hard. And it's what makes it so incredibly exciting.
There is no hero's journey without epic struggle. And, just like in every hero's story since the dawn of time, the keys have always been vision, tenacity, bold decisions, honor, and guides who lifted the veil from the hero's eyes and supported their transformation. As far as I'm concerned, entrepreneurs are heroes. Which means they're subjected to the arc of the hero's journey. For better and worse.
So, when I say that you're good, I mean it. You're on that journey now, and you will experience all highs and lows. It's part of the game. Arm yourself with the keys I described above, and you will be good. I promise you.