My wife and I did this. Graduated college in 98; made $70k between the two of us. Worked in Milwaukee, but couldn’t afford a house there or in Madison. Bought a great starter house in Janesville, WI. I commuted until I got a job with Grainger.
The woe is me comments are pretty disappointing.
Cheap housing, high paying jobs, a great place to live. Pick any two.
Boomers and Gen X moved an hour away from our jobs bc we couldn’t afford the ones near the jobs either.
There are < $200k houses all over America. You can still do this.
It seems people today would rather complain than solve their problem. 🙄