A retired psychiatrist with some clout said, “We stopped blaming parents for schizophrenia.” Extreme childhood trauma caused my schizophrenia and my parents were to blame. Of course, I have matured quite a bit since my 19-year struggle with schizophrenia ended and I don’t go around blaming my parents because I understand why and how things came to be and take full responsibility for my own life, but for this retired psychiatrist to speak like what happened to me didn’t happen is not only insensitive but is disgraceful. There are thousands and thousands of us who have made complete recoveries, and we don’t need anyone to rewrite our stories for us. We can speak for ourselves. Sorry if your credentials and training have led you astray. Sorry, you just can’t imagine someone overcoming the worst of circumstances. Just because you haven’t come across anyone like me doesn’t make it untrue. It just means I have been leading a very productive life and haven’t needed MH services for decades. Many of us recoverees have tried over and over to tell you we have truly recovered and healed, but you have dismissed it because it doesn't align with your narrative or agenda.