Many Ethiopians feel this is a conversation that needs to happen, even if it makes some in the diaspora uncomfortable.
The Ethiopian diaspora is very active in politics, social media, and international lobbying. Yet, compared to many other African countries, its economic contribution through remittances remains relatively modest. For most Ethiopians, however, the bigger concern is not money - it is peace.
After years of conflict, displacement, and ethnic tension, many Ethiopians are exhausted. What they long for is stability: a country where families can live without fear, where young people can work and build a future, and where development is not repeatedly disrupted by crisis.
What many inside Ethiopia struggle to understand is why a small but very vocal segment of the diaspora often adds to division instead of helping to heal it. Rather than encouraging dialogue and compromise, some amplify conflict, circulate graphic images of past violence, and use highly charged terms such as "genocide" in ways that deepen mistrust between communities. Whether intended or not, such narratives inflames emotions and make reconciliation more difficult, keeping wounds open rather than allowing them to heal.
Many Ethiopians also struggle to understand why some individuals become more extreme after leaving their country. Ethiopia has long been a place where people of different ethnicities and religions live, work, and study together peacefully, despite repeated attempts to create division. Yet some people leave and become more radical in their ethnic or religious identities than those who remain at home, often viewing every issue through the lens of division and conflict.
This raises questions that many believe deserve serious and honest study. Why does this happen? Is it due to frustration or dissatisfaction in host countries? Is it a sense of guilt for not contributing meaningfully despite the sacrifices made by their fellow countrymen for their education and opportunities? Is it the influence of social media that rewards extreme voices over balanced ones? Is it disconnection from everyday realities in Ethiopia? Or is it the isolation that can come from living abroad, away from the diverse interactions that shape life back home? These are important questions that deserve careful and objective answers.
At the same time, there is an important distinction to be made. Criticizing a government is every citizen's right, and no government should be above criticism. But there is a clear difference between opposing a government and wishing for the failure of an entire country - between demanding change and promoting instability.
What Ethiopia needs is investment, jobs, education, and constructive engagement from all its sons and daughters, especially those abroad.
It is important to recognize that the vast majority of Ethiopians in the diaspora are hardworking people who love their country and support their families. The concern is not with them, but with a small vocal minority whose actions deepen divisions rather than ease them.
Many Ethiopians hope the diaspora will increasingly use its education, resources, and global connections to support peace, reconciliation, and development. Governments and political systems will change over time, but Ethiopia remains a shared home for all its people.
The real question is whether the diaspora will help build a more peaceful, united, and prosperous Ethiopia or allow divisions to continue pulling the country apart, fulfilling the wishes of those who want Ethiopia to fail.
This is a conversation many believe is long overdue.
#Ethiopia relies far less on diaspora dollars than many African countries. If our contribution is limited, should we be deciding its future, appropriating the voice of the people, or fundraising for wars whose consequences ppl will bear? Build them schools & hospitals⛔️wars!