One of my roughest memories is my gym buddy venting to me about his wife.
He said that him and his wife hadn't had sex in 5 years.
I asked if she ever goes anywhere for days. He said yeah, her cousins house every weekend.
I asked him if she's celibate. He said no. I just paused and stared at him. Watching him do the math and have the realization was rough. I watched the light leave his eyes in real time.