A tragic accident stole the life of my best good friend yesterday
We served in the Coast Guard together, then later were in business together
Over the years we traveled together for fun and continuing education
We helped each other through divorce, health crises and joked about age, saggy skin and wisdom hair
Today there's hole in my heart, a place he used to fill
Throughout the day of notifications, tears and sorrow, I wondered many times if he knew how his life touched others
I wondered if he knew how deeply I loved him and that he was like my brother
How I cherished his council and sage advice and respected his business accumen
If he understood what a beautiful perfect soul he was and how much humanity he brought to this planet
I know he knew some of these things but perhaps not all of them
We had a dinner date planned for June that will never come and words from that date will never be said or heard
And I long for one more conversation
I am profoundly brokenhearted at this loss and for his grieving family
Please, I beg you, reach out to someone in your life today and let them know how much the mean to you
Tell the people you love and cherish how you feel all of the time so you never live with the regret of not doing so
And, not to be morbid, so they know in case anything happens to you
Thank you so much for reading and for any thoughts and prayers you will lift up for his family