A lot of guys are out here trying hard in the gym, and I genuinely respect that. Hats off to you. This is not a dig at the bros putting in the work.
However..
One unfortunate side effect of the āscience-based optimal hypertrophy renaissanceā is that a growing number of guys who have never lifted a real weight in their life - are jumping straight into programs that are ultra-optimized, scapular-retracted, unilateral, mind-muscle connection everything.
No strength base. No meat on the frame. Just isolation work, single arm facedown wrist cuff pulldowns, and 7 RIR.
To top it off they're on peptides and compounds before they can bench their bodyweight
And then they wonder why they look like a wellness coordinator who sometimes does Pilates.
Meanwhile, most of us dinosaurs started with some crusty 3-day full-body program we found on a dead bodybuilding forum from 2003, doing compound lifts with questionable form and zero deloads, eating peanut butter sandwiches and dreaming of our first GNC creatine purchase like we were sneaking into a rated R movie.
It wasn't perfect, but we weren't obsessed with perfect. We built a thick, greasy red-meat foundation. You got strong, you learned to train hard, and you built a physique that could actually grow from all the modern nuance.
You lift but not sure if anyone really notices that you lift? You need to earn the canvas before you paint. Build the slab, then you can start getting fancy.