Founder of @realaskchadai and The Fraternity - I guide men on how to overcome their dating and relationship struggles.

Joined January 2021
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THE FRATERNITY IS LIVE! The place where you can meet like-minded individuals helps you reach your dating and relationship goals. The Fraternity is built on two courses that address the actual problem in sequence. Masculine Meta is the entity layer - why you can't attract what you want and how to build the emotional architecture that changes that from the inside out => french-og.com/masculine-meta The Close Her is the execution layer - how to read every stage of an interaction and act accordingly, so nothing feels like performance and everything becomes seamless => french-og.com/the-close-her Together, they are The Fraternity. Not a community of men coping with their situation, but one of men changing it. What you get: => 27 hours of video content across both courses. => 1,000 PDFs to return to for precision => 350 situational quizzes to test your integration. => 100 exercises to embody the material. 11 case studies. => And direct access to me and my Generals on Discord, where we dissect your specific situation and tell you exactly what to do. As part of the launch, the first 10 founding members get a 40% discount => DM me for details
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The definition of a prop. The funny thing is most guys in this situation are completely clueless of what is going on.
Women who constantly post their husbands all the time and claim to be “good wives” are actually worse than the women who never post their husbands and never talk much about their personal life. I will not explain.
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Women when they copy the wife and mistress with men.
Women are something else 😂
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Personality is a substitute goods when they can’t afford the first choice.
It was never about personality.
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My friend on Bumble was getting bored watching the huff and puff tactics of Canada against Bosnia in the World Cup, so he started chatting to a match he had. He soon realised she was worse than expected, he sent me the pictures, she was a 4. The cheeky fucker decided to play along. He was not interested in her the slightest, yet threw some crumbs for her to pick on, and needled her here and there, and she would emotionally react every time. She tried doing that with him, but he could not care less, and started calling it out for a laugh. He even purposely self-qualified to her to see how much it would turn her off, but it rattled her in a positive way. And although she was dating intentionally on her profile, she had already agreed to fuck prior to the date. He was too disgusted with himself to take the open goal and unmatched her. Then, The World Cup game finished and his goal trade was just scratched, like the chat. I then said to him - that is what I say to guys, chat for sport to ugly chicks or even lower tier mids you don’t wanna fuck - break down what you do - replicate the energy you show - and then you will know what to do with good looking ones.
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Spoke randomly to a 50yo old guy at a pub who admitted, in between two pints, to using escorts quite frequently, and he said to me this funny thing: “A good whore is like a good cleaner, once you find one who hoovers you good, you stick with her, good quality ones are few and far between, although, unlike the cleaner, you don’t tell other guys about her”
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A lesson on Regulation: Translation from the 19 year old who just won the French Open (first slam ever): “I watched a lot of Roger Federer matches here. I wanted to try to imitate the way he behaved on the court; I wanted to have a good attitude.” Mira Andreeva biggest obstacle was never a technical weakness but it was emotional volatility and managing her own expectations during big moments. I love watching women’s tennis for trading opportunities (as their mental frailties are great source for them) and I could see she would become visibly frustrated, negative, or emotionally reactive during matches. The last one but not the least was: “Fuck you all” she said at the Indian Wells crowd when she lost a game against a player not as technically gifted as her, in the relatively early rounds. That, not many people know, is that Federer himself had a similar issue early in his career. As a junior and young professional he was known for emotional outbursts and frustration before developing into one of the most composed champions ever. Before winning her first Slam, she was easily a Top 5 player in terms of technique, potential and talent- but she kept on fucking up on the big stage because she was not emotionally regulated, despite many wins in smaller tournaments. You can be a top player (double entendre intended) when it comes to skills but if you are not regulated you will leak own goals and you will never win big tournaments because you will concede more than you will score. Regulation is boring because it is the same as having a strong defence, but being well regulated without having as strong overall skills will make you outperform teams/players who have game skills but poor regulation. The other lesson is visualisation, replicate the behaviour and mannerism of people who succeed and it will translate into a stronger inner frame.
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When you have kids, it is not about regretting having them (although, I would not judge guys who freely admit that, I don’t count the number of women who said that to me behind closed doors) - but it keeps you stuck seeing the ex wife because the kids are tied to her, and if she is a cunt, she will make sure to use them as a tool to get back at you. I have found women are more ruthless weaponising the kids men love (that is why they do it) to make them pay for whatever reason they have, only confirming lesser love for the kids (less willingness to sacrifice than men) or even undisclosed regret. Having said that, I have also met women or ex-husbands who had an amicable separation and custody went equally smoothly. So really, it is a roll of the dice.
I have worked with scores of divorced men, and not a single one of them ever regretted having children with their ex. Many are even grateful for their marriages, no matter how painful, because of what they taught them These guys actually went through hell and aren't whining about it. Meanwhile you are so afraid of divorce (something that is largely preventable with maturity and good vetting) that you are missing out on most of what makes life worth living: love and legacy Get in the arena, and if you lose a round, get up and dust yourself off Focus more on having great stories and no regrets on your deathbed than worrying about being "ruined" The only thing that really ruins someone's life is pathological fear Many people's lives don't even truly begin until they get punched in the face
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Cater to men’s ego and you will see how far it will go.
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Always trust negative emotions over positive ones in others, it is the realest and is harder to fake.
Men have to understand that genuine attraction for women is a WEAKNESS and they will do all they can to avoid it. It is a question of sexual level versus human level. In the sexual level, they are attracted. In the human level, they “like you”. This is also the basis for “friendzones”. Genuine attraction is uncomfortable, therefore, highly inconvenient. They hate it. It ruins their agenda mode, their transsexual ego of doing life like a man, their financial affairs, their praying mantising you. They have inside a force to "choose" anything else but the man right for them. It is the source of their proverbial poor choice in men. They will lie, pretend, run away, and because they do not follow real attraction, they are out of criteria, out of reference points in order to mate. This is how hivemind is generated, for they make appeal to the social emotional level to neutralize the attraction of the physical individual force. So they "choose" not right, but "better", which for her, simply means more convenient. This also generates the hypergamic perpetual effect, as only the right man can stop hypergamy from unfolding. She feel trapped when she likes you, misses you, thinks about you, by developing emotional attachment. Nature is talking to her about you. She doesn't like that and she has to get over it, nevertheless, so she complains. She gets over it in a few days, a few weeks, a few months, or a few years, but she always gets over it by power, leverage, rights, and privileges, all social-emotional. When they “like” you, it is because you are convenient. The social emotional force is based on falsehood, and they need falsehood to neutralize real attraction- their weakness. In order to dominate men, they need to fake attraction, so they have to "be attracted" by what everyone else is, in order to be validated by society. If anything, they are following attraction to society, by the social emotional force. They can easily fake love. It is based on social lies. They cannot fake hate, for it is based on truth. The truth of their own body. #amiraelus #matriarchy202830
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The story people tell themselves when they settle.
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The guy obviously dunno how much she loves to be hate fucked.
Making a woman feel safe is the secret to attraction that the redpill never quite got
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She has been on the apps for too long or heard too many girlzzz podcasts.
When you hear bizarre ‘coded language’ from chicks about how they are dating, such as 🤔 “Looking for my person” 🫤 “Dating intentionally” 😦 “Truecasting” 😵‍💫 “Black Cat Girlfriend” … it is 100% a sign you are dealing with a dating app chick who goes on far TOO many dates.
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That is why you need curated content within a secluded digital space with winners (if you don’t have that in real life) who can lift you up to where you wanna be with the right guidance. I have been building that with few trusted people. The reality is most people will be happy just scrolling because mediocrity is a hell of a drug.
If the cultural conversation weren't so important to win, I would have left this place long ago. Social media has largely elevated the most toxic and dysfunctional people because spectacles sell. Slop is what captures dopamine. Your mental health will improve when you log off from all the outrage. The only catch is that what happens here is trickling into the mainstream, so even if you want to escape the mind viruses, you can't entirely. Virtually every actively dating single man and woman since COVID has had a disappointing romantic experience that was downstream of some ragebait influencer's content, even if they don't know it.
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French OG | Your Dating and Relationship Guide retweeted
Good character is a woman's first and most lasting beauty. The most successful men consider this to be non-negotiable. There is a certain lowliness and desperation in men who put up with headaches and poor character women because of her external beauty. Ungrounded. They live to seek validation, even when they know their trophy is hollow.
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