As an emergency physician, I am mortified.
As a feminist, I am not the least bit surprised.
This is unacceptable. A man’s vital signs would never presumed to be related to issues with his girlfriend, and he would never be called a term of endearment by a random “professional”
At ER with a POTS flare - heart rate is 180 at triage.
Nurse: “Are you fighting with your boyfriend sweetie?”
Me (somewhat indignant) “I don’t have a boyfriend. I have POTS”
Doctor: “Single? At your age? How come? You don’t want to be married?”
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