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THE PROBLEM I HAVE WITH ROB K. HENDERSON — PART THREE: SELECTIVE FIRE AND THE CLASS INFLUENCE MYTH patreon.com/posts/problem-i-… #robkhenderson

SOME FINAL THOUGHTS ON CHEYENNE BRYANT patreon.com/posts/some-final… #cheyennebryant

Look man I support deportations but not like this. I thought we'd tell them to leave and they'd be like, "Okay no problem," and we'd be like, "Sorry didn't mean to make this awkward," and they'd go, "No seriously no worries at all," and we'd all shake hands and within a week there'd be no illegals here anymore and that would be the end of it.

When's The Last Time An Educated Black Woman Said, "Here's How My Education Can Help YOU?" "MOA: And I want to ask, I'm looking at the camera. I want to ask the brothers this question. When's the last time? And maybe you let me know in the comments section. If you see this on Rumble, if you see this over on Facebook, if you see this over on Instagram or TikTok, you let me know in the comments section. When is the last time, my brother? A sister that makes a big stink so that we're clear. Not all sisters do this, but I'm talking about the ones that make a big stink about it. The ones that lead with their degrees. When's the last time the sister said, listen, Ben, let me break it down. How my degree can help you. Let me break it down for you real quick. Real quick, five minutes. When's the last time you heard that? When is the last time a sister that leaves with her degree, so that we're clear, that leaves with her degree said, wait, you know, let me explain to you just real quick. Let me explain to you how what I got going on can help you. I'm going to be honest with you. I'm scratching my head. I'm just being honest. Many sisters are of the view that brothers should, you know, give them accolades and kudos for something that they achieved. And that's it with no regard to they're supposed to put it together as to how it's supposed to be bring value. That's something else I'm gonna get within a minute with, uh, with ACE metaphor. But let me, let me, let me finish the rest of this." Ladies with degrees: Are you actively showing *how* your success adds value, or just expecting the kudos? This conversation pivots the focus from what men are *expected* to bring (protect, provide, stability) to the partner's tangible value proposition. It's time to articulate the benefits! Where do you stand on this discussion? Let us know below! #RelationshipAdvice #ValueAdd #DatingTalks #Partnership #EducatedWomen #ValueProposition #ModernWomen #BlackWomen

Why Men Should NEVER Stop Asking 'What Do You Bring To The Table?' "GTFO out of here man no bro no no I am not changing shit. The question is what it is. Now, if you don't want to answer it, that's cool. Step aside. You're getting in the way. If you don't want to answer the question, cool. Step aside. It is my hope and prayer that brothers keep the heat on and don't change shit. I ain't changing nothing. It is what it is. What do you bring to the table? You think these jobs will say, well, we can't ask her that way. She might not. Man, shh. That's part of the interview process is what do you, what do you think you can bring and bring value to this organization? That's just on that mouth. He brought over on Facebook talking about, well, I'm not, I'm not going to do anything like that. That's not a partner. That's a buyer. I said wrong sister. You obviously don't know anything about business startups. You obviously don't know anything about being an actual partner. You don't know a damn thing about it. Because you best believe when you start in the business, you start in the startup and shit like that, oh yes, what you bring to the table will be assessed. Yes, it will. Because the success of your business, of your organization rises and falls on each of the founders, the partners, what they bring into the table." The raw, unfiltered take on assessing value in business partnerships is essential listening. This clip cuts through the noise, emphasizing that in the startup trenches, what you bring to the table isn't a suggestion—it's the foundation of organizational success. Hear the unapologetic stance on accountability and real partner expectations! 🔥 #BusinessTips #StartupLife #Accountability #PartnershipGoals #ValueProposition #JillScott #GettingInTheWay #ValueProposition #Value #MateValue #Dating #DatingAdvice #FoundersGetEquity #Men #BlackMen #Manosphere #BlackManosphere #WhatDoYouBringToTheTable #TheTable #Table

"Yo, man, I made the point that Janet Jackson, what have you done for me lately from the album Control? Let me just run down the numbers for you real quick. I'm going to put this to memory. Let me run down the numbers for you. What have you done for me, lady? What are you bringing to the table? See what I did there? In the first week, that single, what have you done for me, lady, was the first lead-off single to the album Control. In the first week, it sold almost a quarter of a million copies in the United Kingdom. That's not including United States. And we know ain't that many black people in the United Kingdom. We know that. There's an order of magnitude more black people in the United States than there is in the United Kingdom. In its first week, damn near a quarter of a million copies sold. That single, along with other than, to be fair, the album controls like her masterpiece. That's like her magnum opus. She's done some good records before and since, but that control, that's where it's at. Jammin' Lewis, they really did the damn thing on that. Control ended up selling over 6 million copies in the United States, over 10 million worldwide. That's what the numbers tell us. And she's not alone." The first-week sales breakdown for Janet Jackson’s “What Have You Done For Me Lately” is truly next level! That *Control* album wasn't just music; it was a global commercial earthquake, hitting over 10 million copies worldwide. Jam & Lewis cooked up an absolute magnum opus that redefined pop expectations. When the music is this monumental, the receipts speak for themselves. Consider this the ultimate case study for demanding accountability and quantifying impact. The legacy is secured by the numbers. #JanetJackson #ControlAlbum #MusicReceipts #PopCulture #80sMusic #WhatDoYouBringToTheTable #Table #TheTable #Dating #Relationships #DatingAdvice #Women #ModernWomen #BlackWomen

Why You Weren't Meant to Chase: The Value Proposition in Dating "ACE: You want to know why God gave you high heels instead of track shoes? It's because he never intended on you chasing a man. You want to know why God gave you a crown instead of a construction hat? Because he never intended on you building a man. You want to know why God gave you a dress instead of a Batman utility belt? It's because he never intended on you saving A man, if you got to be the chaser, the builder, the saver, baby girl, that is not your man. How many times you gonna beg a man to text you back? To take you out on a date, to be consistent, to see you, to be emotionally checked into a relationship. How many times you're going to allow a man to make you dim your work and make you forget that you are a queen, you are God's daughter, and you deserve a man to at least meet you halfway. MOA: Stop right there. Now here's the problem. Notice that nowhere in that discussion was the word value. At no point in his soliloquy did Ace say, sis, you got to, listen, look, if you want a high-value brother, you're going to have to bring some high-value value to get that high-value brother. Just like turning around. Brothers want certain sisters. They know what they got to do to get that. Present company included. Listen, man, we all understand that. This idea that you just show up and shit is on and popping, that's got to stop, man. No. What is the value proposition?" The audacity! 👠👑 This perspective on why you were given heels and a crown, not track shoes or a utility belt, is a needed reality check for every woman tired of chasing, building, or saving a man. When is the begging for consistency going to stop? That moment the conversation pivots to the **Value Proposition** is the absolute mic drop. If you're aiming for that high-value partner, what value are *you* bringing to the table? Time to redefine the dating game. #DatingAdvice #SelfWorth #ValueProposition #RelationshipGoals #QueenEnergy #AceMetaphor #GreatDebate #HighValue #FairExchange #Reciprocity

Why do black women bother with 40k school debt? "said, why do so many black women, since we're talking about them, why do so many black women go to all the trouble of going to college, university, the average black woman that does go to university, got 40 grand in school debt, that's the facts, that's not me, that's Forbes, that's Black Enterprise, etc. Why even bother going through the trouble if you If all you want to do is end up doing what Dr. Cheyenne Bryant is doing or doing what Kita, with an A, Rose is doing, you don't need to go to school to do that. You don't need to go to the University of Thirst Trapping. You don't need to do that. No, you got to go to school to make money. So they're going to school not for the passion of what they're doing. They're going to school for, like Cheyenne said that she found interest in it when she took a psychology course in undergrad. And she, I think there's a different reason why she had the psychology. But it said, it awoken something inside of her. She got to see herself through the education, through the learning. And so that's why. I don't know why the other one, Katie, got into it. But for the most part, It's about the money. And then you have to understand also, psychology attracts a lot of egotistical people. Unfortunately, a lot of therapists out here are operating not from compassion or passion, but operating from an egotistical standpoint. They have a savior common." #Blackwomen #Women #University #Debt #DrCheyenneBryant #Psychology #Career #Goals #ThirstTrapping

Dr.(?) Cheyenne Bryant and Jeezy: Speculation and Branding "Here's the problem I do have. How now she's posing with Jeezy. All right. Immediately, people are going to start speculating because he's a man about town. You know, you got divorced from his agent. I can't remember her name. Got divorced from her. And, you know, right. Yeah, my. Yeah. So. Of course, are they going to be an item? You know, that sort of thing. So here's my question. So I have no problem with her or any Tisia XVS. Remember her? She's another one that's kind of in that mood. You know, I've done all this work on myself. I have my stand. That's fine, sis. The question becomes how many brothers of the caliber and ilk you want agree with you? Well, I think I think Dr. Cheyenne Bryant is going to, if she gets out of her own way, she can have her lick of the pick of the litter. She seems to like powerful men, high-powered men, men whom she can gain status from and draw a little of their power for herself. She can use them to gain influence. And I do believe those men are going to be highly attracted to her and they're going to want to be with her. Now, when she gets to the point where she's ready to settle down, if she could get past the, um, insecure attachment status, she probably has, um, then she'll, she'll choose one. She'll be all right." #DrCheyenneBryant #Jeezy #speculation #dating #branding #TisiaXVS

The Psychology of Attraction: Understanding the Halo Effect "By the way, did you know that, like Cosmo, I know you know about Cosmo, Colin Pollan and Mary Claire, et cetera, Vogue and whatever. Did you know that, so one of the reasons why they put these magazines, they used to it, and I don't know if they still do this. They put these magazines at the checkout as you're going to check out the supermarket. The reason why they do that, obviously, women go to their shop, but they found that women, you would think that the men like to gawk at it, and they do, but actually, it's the women that like looking at other really attractive women. I don't know if you knew that or not. Yeah, they like looking at pretty women that want to see themselves or be able to see themselves or get an idea of how they would like to look. There is a business in When it comes to the psychology of marketing, it's called industrial organization psychology. Biopsychology for short. They've been doing it for a long time, even if the term didn't exist, but they found a way to use psychology to market to people, right? Get people to buy things that they otherwise would not buy. And if you put a pretty woman on the cover of something, she's going to become interested in what that woman has to say. what the article is saying about her. So then they'll go, they'll start reading the article in the checkout line. brushes get wound up and now they're not done reading it. So now they're going to take it home. So they're going to..." #halo #effect #psychology #marketing #attractiveness #human #behavior

Is Dr. Cheyenne Bryant Following Ethics or Chasing Fame? "Psychologists, um, therapists are supposed to be ethical at all times. What Tasha K was saying goes against ethics of psychology. That can cause problems for her as well right so that will, even, even if she doesn't have a license, now they're gonna now they're gonna be going after her and looking into all of that. Um, they're probably already doing it now they did to Dr. Umar Johnson at one point, but yeah, I can see why. if you're lying on me, if you're spreading lies, false information, and I'm a public brand, I'm going to reach out to you and tell you, hey, you need to stop telling these lies. Because then it becomes about the lies and not her message. Right. I'm glad that you mentioned her, Dr. Question Mark Cheyenne Bryant. I'm glad that you mentioned her appeal among Black women. Because Really, for me because I'm like I'm sitting there, I'm like, nobody can really say with a straight face. She's not in the same room, whatever you may think of them, she's not in the same room with Dr. Jordan Peterson. Like, Dr. Jordan Peterson's bona fides as a psychologist, teaching at the university level is unimpeachable. Nobody, the New York Times, the free Press, you name it, nobody has come after him for that. Nobody. Nobody. It's just everybody agrees that the man is legit. Now, you may disagree with him, but the man is legit when it comes to the psychology." The *real* tea on professional boundaries in the psychology world is spilling! It’s a serious ethical tightrope walk when claims are made that contradict established psychological standards. Observing the stark contrast between figures facing scrutiny for alleged falsehoods and those whose academic credentials—like a university-level psychologist—are entirely unimpeachable. Does questionable conduct overshadow the message, especially when the appeal to certain communities is so strong? The conversation around who gets to be seen as legit is the core of this discussion. #PsychologyEthics #MentalHealthDebate #TherapistTalk #JordanPeterson #Professionalism #DrCheyenneBryant #Psychology #Ethics #SocialMedia #BlackWomen #Critique

Are All Women For Sale? (Team Fatty Debate!) rumble.com/v742m5q-are-all-w… Taken from one of the final guest appearances I made in 2025 (Dec 28, 2025 to be exact), I join the Team Fatty panel to hash out the burning question: Are ALL women "for sale"? From a one night stand to walking down the aisle - what do YOU think? #teamfatty #relationships #dating #women #modernwomen #blackwomen

The 'Doctor' title is sexy, but the work isn't "Because she's another one. Where's the psychology? Every time I hear her speak, it's theology. I'm like, why didn't you go to divinity school? That would have been the better play. Go to divinity school, get your divinity degree, and if you want to, you know, look, I'm not a Christian, so I'm saying this as an outsider, a black Christian, if you will. I'm saying this as an outsider, but the truth just has to be told. The black church is predominantly black and female. So, From a numbers standpoint. Kind of makes sense that you would have you have, you know, or at least. Those that make up the majority of the black church population would want to see a black woman in the head position. I can get that. I go for it. No, but I'm not a Christian. So I'm not in that. But it kind of makes sense. And clearly. Aces crowd is good when it male and female alike. So my thinking is, Kitty, why even bother? with the psychology because you never talk about it why don't you just go to divinity school and be done with it your response well because that doctor title is sexy it's compelling it's it gives you an air of authority that just having a master's degree does not. And, um, they don't talk about psychology because psychology is not sexy. You know this. How many times do people get bored with me and you when we bring up psychology on Clubhouse?" #Divinity #School #Psychology #Authority #Academic #Titles #Black #Church

The 'Mate Insurance' Theory Explained "So, evolutionary psychology again. David Buss and other researchers, not just him, other researchers around the world have found and they have postulated the theory that it was avid picking up on a whole friend thing. It was advantageous not just for human females, in other words, women, but also primate females, baboons, chimpanzees, bonobos, et cetera, to assemble, if you can think of a baseball team, kind of assemble a dugout or a bench of male friends. And the reason why was because in the ancestral environment, in other words, the Flintstone era, right? Cavemen and all that. Life was mean, brutish, and short. You could have an accident. Talking about men. You could have an accident. hunting accident, you could take a bad fall, you could get sick, you could get killed, you know, by either a predator animal or by another human male, you know, and so on. That would leave the woman in question in the lurch. Now I'm here stuck with, you know, little Jimmy Jr. And, you know, I can't, so it makes sense to have friends so you could pick among them who's going to replace your main mate. Now, saying that understandably makes some brothers upset. Now they're looking at, well, my woman is being a little too friendly with so-and-so and so-and-so. Well, what I would say to that is, well, that's human nature, if you will." #evolutionary #psychology #dating #mate #insurance #relationships #female #nature #davidbuss #women

The pressure to be 'sensual' over 'intellectual' on social media "We're in the age of podcasting where everybody's streaming, everybody's on camera now. There is a lot of pressure for women to present a certain way. And I know this because I too was, some people are attempting to pressure me into presenting myself as more sensual and more sexual. And I just didn't feel comfortable with that. And the thing is, it's about getting the likes, getting the follows, getting the followers, getting the views. Because how she looks is why they're inviting her on their podcast. Right. It has nothing to do with her knowledge. There's plenty of Black psychologists who can help you understand what's going on with male and female, Black men and Black women. But they don't have any of those. Why? Because... If someone presented like you, you have on a sweater with a button down, right? Very professional looking. In our community, unfortunately, that look is not respected, right? Hold on, hold on. Stop right there. Stop right there. The way I'm looking right now, which, interestingly, I know you've heard about this, there is a group of young men online, young black men, who have taken to essentially wearing what I'm wearing, you know? Mm-hmm. They call them, they refer to as the quarter zip movement. You know, the guys with quarter zip sweaters." #SocialMedia #Validation #Psychology #Pressure #Presentation

Why looking the part is the key to going viral "No. No, they don't respect it when it comes to their entertainment, right? They'll respect it when they're going to see a psychologist. That's what they want to see. They'll respect it when they go into their doctor's office. But when it comes to their entertainment, being entertained, that's where all of this is... Basically, this is why it's happening, why it's looking like that, is because... They're entertaining black people. And you have to look the part in order to get the views, in order to get the likes, in order to get the shares, to go viral. You have to look the part. And she's looking the part. Now, that's very interesting. Now, to be fair, that's very interesting. Now, that's a very interesting point. Let me think about this for a moment. So, because there is, let me say this, since I mentioned Keita, With an A. Keita Rose. Let me say this. I think that a lot of things she said was seriously hyperbolic and just going all over the place, histrionic, whatever, back earlier this year. I think a lot of that was just some crazy zany stuff. But not all of it. There was a ring of truth to what she was saying, partly because I was there so many times. So I'm like, yeah, I can kind of see where she's coming from with that, because I was there. And I kind of saw something. I wasn't behind the veil, so to speak. But I was there on the front row. You saw me in one of the videos they posted, me literally on the front row. So, yeah, I'm like, Keita, I would say out of 10 things she said earlier this year regarding Ace and tonight's conversation, I would say at least six of them." #Viral #Culture #Entertainment #SocialMedia #Psychology #Views

Can Men and Women Just Be Friends? The Evolutionary Truth "Can men and women just be friends? Right? And what I will typically do being provocative is say, well, you know, studies have shown that the answer in most cases is no. And the reason why is because most men, not all, but most men want to have a sexual relationship with a woman that is on the surface just a friend. What the inhibiting factor is, is typically, not always, but typically, the women involved don't feel the same way. They want to have a sexual relationship with their male friend. So typically what happens on the off chance that she does get a sex partner, a mate or just a fling, and the friend finds out, he typically breaks it off, breaks the friendship off. Typically, that's what happens. So my thing being, no, the answer is no. It's like David Buss and everybody get upset. So that's one example of my citing evolutionary psychology that kind of upsets people. But that's what I'm saying. The reason why they're getting upset is because they're that type of assessing psychology or going towards psychology is not something that they can sink their teeth in. So they're getting upset with you because they're not interested in the subject matter, right? They're bored with it. They're bored by it." #evolutionarypsychology #relationships #dating #science #friendship #blacklove #discourse

Dr.(?) Cheyenne Bryant's Racy Outfit - SMH x.com/i/broadcasts/1rmxPvXml…