Women are only "naturally" submissive when their survival directly and visibly depends on it. Men built a world in which women don't have to submit in order to survive. That's actually ok with me. I don't need a woman to submit to me. But because of this new world I also don't feel compelled to care about women's alleged struggles, or to rescue them from their poor life choices. Flat tire? You'll need a jack and a lug wrench, have fun. Money problems? Try a second job. Accosted by a stranger? Good luck. I'll be the guy who keeps scrolling on his phone without looking up.
Of course, the women whining the most about incels and male expectations of women, are also the ones lamenting the absence of chivalry.
If women were naturally submissive, there wouldn’t be a million incel podcasters crying about women not submitting.