You cannot have a wife who is working and not know what her money is being used for!!!
Nigeria cannot have a cost of living crisis and young couple are still choosing to be traditional or 50/50 instead of applying common sense.
There’s no reason you should be running to borrow money from third parties when your wife has money simply because “it’s the duty of a man to provide and pay for rent”. And no, she shouldn’t lend you the money, her should be used to pay rent without being paid back, let alone paying back with interest!!!
Your wife will not call third parties to carry your child for you when the stress of motherhood hits her, she will also never tell you lend her your strength to get things done in the house, why are you then coming to X to ask me for money?!
Again, every money that is made in a family should be used to make the life of the family better. Your wife’s money is your money and vice versa. Your energy and time is for your wife’s use as well and vice versa.
If you’re a young man or woman building a future with your spouse, you should be relying on each other for everything.
God has given you a helper, please put that helper to good use.
Let 3rd parties only be an option when the options in the family have truly been exhausted.
It’s 2026, choose life, not death!!!