I think it is a micro aggression when folks pronounce my name correctly! People who worry about this stuff need to get over themselves. No one who matters cares, and nobody should. Get a since of humor or be miserable the rest of your life.
Having consequences will allow you to retain self-respect and can show you which relationships are worth investing in.
You are worthy of respect, and others saying your name correctly is the bare minimum for anyone who wants to have a meaningful relationship with you.