"If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part yourself. What isn’t part ourselves doesn’t disturb us."
— Hermann Hesse
"Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves."
— Carl Jung
3 different perspectives, one concept.
Fine Roman emperor, stoic philosopher, writer, priests do psychoanalysis
“Whenever you are about to find fault with someone, ask yourself the following question: What fault of mine most nearly resembles the one I am about to criticize?”
Marcus Aurelius, 121 - 180, Meditations