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Compassion won't fight for itself, so we have to. In the middle of the radical religious right's "war on empathy,"' we're giving away $100,000 in grants for Americans to help their neighbors. America needs more empathy, not less, and we're standing on it.
This is fantastic: The @americnhumanist is giving away $100,000 in grants to spread compassion. They’re calling it the “American Empathy Project.” americanempathyproject.org
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Fred Rogers met with a child psychologist every week for 22 years to build his show. She shaped everything: every script, prop, and song. The whole point was to give a child's nervous system time to slow down. In 1984, a single regulatory decision ended all of it. The psychologist was Dr. Margaret McFarland, who co-founded the Arsenal Family and Children's Center alongside Benjamin Spock and Erik Erikson. She and Rogers understood that the prefrontal cortex in children, the part of the brain that controls impulse, emotion, and attention, takes decades to fully develop. At the start of every episode, Rogers tied his sneakers and changed his sweater while children settled in. Those pauses were intentional, designed to help a child's nervous system shift into a calmer, more focused state. What ended it had nothing to do with child development science. In 1984, Reagan's FCC chairman Mark Fowler abolished the advertising limits that had protected children's programming from commercial pressure. Toy companies moved within months. Between 1984 and 1985, cartoons tied to toy lines increased by 300%, from a handful of shows to more than 40 animated series. In almost every case, the toy was designed first. The cartoon was built to sell it. Researchers later put numbers to what parents were already noticing. A 2011 study in Pediatrics from the University of Virginia tested 60 four-year-olds across three groups: one watching SpongeBob, which cuts scene every 11 seconds; one watching a slow PBS show, which cuts scene every 34 seconds; and one drawing. Nine minutes later, all three took tests on attention, impulse control, short-term memory, and problem-solving. The SpongeBob group scored significantly worse across every measure. In the 1970s, children began watching television around age 4. Research from pediatrician Dimitri Christakis found that by 2009, the average age of first screen exposure had dropped to 4 months, as the content got faster and the audience got younger. Researchers separately found that each additional hour of daily screen time at ages 1 or 3 raised the risk of attention problems at age 7 by 9%.
We didn’t realize it then, but kids’ shows used to be this calm on purpose.
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As a monogamous person, my partner meets all my romantic/sexual/intimacy needs, yes. For other things, there are these things calls friendships, familial relationships, etc. Expecting a singular person to be everything to you isn’t monogamy, that’s more co-dependence imo
monogamous people are so weird to me. like you genuinely think one person is going to meet all your needs? or are you fine only having some of your needs met just so you dont have to be alone?
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look at this guy and his suicidal empathy. doesnt he know that the heat maps say it's liberal to prioritize an unrelated child?
He didn't even hesitate. His parents raised him right.
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“You can’t build socialism if you like America” is a deeply-held belief by much of the left, especially academics, and it’s also complete nonsense. Literal idealism. On the left, in general, we put infinitely too much weight on how you *feel* about certain things, like a nation
tapping the sign...
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More and more people are getting into pro-fish politics
Don't believe I've ever donated to a political candidate before but here we go
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Maybe this time we can try to run without naming a villain and it will work. Not last time and barely the time before and not the time before that, but maybe this time
Exciting news: Politico’s Morning Score exclusively covered WJN Action’s new memo on aspirational populism this morning. The memo makes a simple case: We’re in a populist moment. But the question for Democrats isn’t just whether to embrace populism. It’s what kind.
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Elon Musk becoming the world’s first trillionaire is the logical endpoint of an economic ideology that treats public investment as “socialism” when it helps ordinary people, and as “entrepreneurship” when it helps billionaires.
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Pete Hegseth should put down the bottle and pick up the constitution. I’m tired of our military being run by a belligerent himbo who thinks our national security is just a platform for him to shove his religion down our throats.
When 2 letters is "too complex"... come on, dude. Sign up for our newsletter to stay posted on how we're pushing back!
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I don’t care about Platner’s personal life, I don’t need him to be my friend. I need him to vote correctly.
Graham Platner has shown incredibly bad judgment in his personal and professional life to date. But if we just raise the stakes by 1,000 percent, I bet he’ll display impeccable judgment in the United States Senate.
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I don't think the point of gifted programs is to produce "eminence," it's to allow children who can learn at an accelerated pace to do so without being separated from same-age peers. We can do that while reducing pressure making the system more accessible to low-income kids
Gifted and Talented, or G&T, programs have long been a perennial subject of debate, particularly in New York City, where it has bedeviled mayors for years. Some parents have already washed their hands of the whole G&T business, refusing to participate in what they view as a corrupt system of segregation. But countless others still place significant stock in the G&T designation and what it offers and are comfortable relying on cognitive testing, should it be required, to determine whether a child qualifies. “When your intelligence is the foundation of your self-perception, failing to achieve feels like soul death,” writes Katie Arnold-Ratliff. But if the limited amount of information we have about gifted kids long-term is any indication, most lead, at best, ordinary lives of modest accomplishment. A 35-year study of 677 gifted children found that by age 50, only 12.3 percent had reached a level of “eminence,” defined as “full professors … Fortune 500 executives … judges and lawyers, leaders in biomedicine, award-winning journalists and writers.” This means 88 percent never did. Arnold-Ratliff digs into the myth of the gifted child, and how our notions of intelligence may be inherently flawed: nymag.visitlink.me/9mc2Wh
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Eminence is incredibly rare, so 12.3% among gifted students is decidedly over-representative. For example, around 0.023% of Americans are full professors at R1 institutions, yet 22 of 677 (3.25%) of gifted students studied eventually held this position (a ~140x fold increase). pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC64…
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I’ve been informed by folks on this site that The Hobbit and now Jane Austen are too difficult for teens. I can’t stress enough how condescending this is to teenagers. You’re taking away all the things that might bring them joy and leaving them with no pastimes but scrolling.
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1/ I watched the attacks on Graham Platner and explored the one involving is wife. I'm convinced this level of coordinated beltway attacks are Koch machine-driven and not just focused on the possible loss of Maine's seat. It's because the Koch machine knows that
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I see we’re all being normal about child-free weddings on here again. Anyway, here is my official position on the matter*
The child-free wedding trend popular among millennials and gen z-ers is the perfect example of their extended childhood behavior. The “it’s my big day” sentiment. You’re actually not supposed to feel that way as an adult. Not once did my inner-monologue spew the phrase “my big day” while planning my wedding. Embarrassing. As an adult you should actually be thinking about bringing joy to everyone else, and you should *especially* be thinking about bringing joy to children.
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*obvious caveat that this is a personal preference and I can’t imagine having strong opinions about someone else’s wedding, especially now that I know how much this shit costs
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The moral of the boy who cried wolf is that the boy’s dishonesty was deadly to him, not that people were wrong to disbelieve him. If anyone with a hard earned reputation for honesty alleged fraud, they’d deserve a hearing. At this point that excludes the entire Republican Party.
The LA fraud story is really unconvincing on my read, but I wish people would be less knee-jerk in rejecting allegations of fraud. It does happen and elections have even been reversed in my lifetime because of it. The moral of the boy who cried wolf is not that wolves don’t exist
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I don't know who gave people the idea that your college admissions essay is supposed to be about the worst thing that ever happened to you. I wrote an essay about my first crush with the sole explicit goal of making the admissions officer laugh, and it got me into Yale
I’d go so far to say college essays are actively pernicious. They incentivize kids who are disproportionately the most well-off to mythologize adversity and develop martyr complexes. It’s ridiculous.
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Grijalva: “It makes me take a pause, definitely, when I'm considering paying my dues that they're being used against candidates that I'm supporting. I'm supposed to give you $175K of very difficult-to-raise money & then the money we give to show we're a good team player you turn around & spend in primaries?”
Axios: Dems threaten to withhold DCCC dues over California faceplant #CA22 Some lawmakers are threatening to withhold their dues to the House Democratic campaign arm if it doesn't change its ways. axios.com/2026/06/09/democra…
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OpenAI and Palantir are with Ben McAdams The people are with progressive @NateForUtah
Think Big PAC — pro-AI, linked to OpenAI, Palantir & Andreessen Horowitz — is going on the air in #UT01 w/ a $450,000 ad buy supporting former Rep. Ben McAdams' comeback bid. McAdams faces several progressive Dem primary rivals, including state Sen. Nate Blouin. Ad here:
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"those engineering professors should get real jobs, like podcasting or something"
Lots of people sticking up for teachers. I’m not talking about your local high school teachers. My mom was a teacher. I’m talking academia. Professors, administrators, deans etc. People who get a million degrees and but never work in real world. They suck
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Vote Blue No Matter Who
Now that Platner has won the primary, I want to be clear. When I said “vote blue no matter who” in 2016, 2020, and 2024, I meant it. I’m worried about Platner, but if you say “vote blue no matter who” in Maine, I hope you’ll extend the same courtesy to other Dems. I hope we beat Collins.
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