I started with Windows at 3.1 and still use it nowadays because sometimes I’m forced to.
I had Android low-level phones and high-level phones.
I had a Windows phone, Lumia cheap and Lumia high-end.
I started with Linux in 2007/2008 and use it nowadays because I love it. (I use Arch, by the way) [but not only Arch, tbf].
Since I bought my first iMac and iPhone, something has changed. I now have something “close” to the Linux experience with a “working UI.”
Whenever I tried to switch my phone, the next had to be an iPhone because nothing was worth my time.
I was in love with Windows Tile UI on my Lumia.
I was in love with the Blackberry message system.
I even had a Palm Zire 71 (note that I’m 41y old, but probably you got it at win 3.1).
Worth mention all the Nokia I had.
The point is that I needed something that works out of the box. I wanted a product, not a project.
With anything but Apple devices, I had to spend too much time customising things, removing bloat, or finding workarounds.
Lately, Windows become the worst, I PAY for a license and what do I get?
ADS, unwanted/unneeded preinstalled stuff.
So your “fresh start” requires you to clinically remove stuff risking to “hurt” the OS deleting the wrong thing.
With Apple? Yes, I need to install Homebrew but the only regrets I had with the iPhone was the time I tried to root it, never worth it.
The only moment I was close to buy a Chromebook I found out that was cheaper to buy the M1 Air, as it had more disk.
It is closed? Yes.
Are you forced to customize it? No, but you can.
It just works out of the box? Yes.
Also, I can use Qemu to emulate whatever I want, MacOs included, something I can't do otherwise.
I got what you mean by “not use samsung”, Wife has a Huawei, we upgraded to a Pixel 7a but she is not happy at all.
Honestly I have hope in LinuxPhones for the Arch vibes and in NothingPhones, but Android is my primary issue.
Let me close this saying that I don’t like what I saw yesterday with the new UI from Apple, but I also know that a beta is a beta, we will see the real upgrade once shipped.
Frankly, said what I said, I’ll not switch back to bloatware and hell because of a UI.