THE DAY A STRANGER MADE ME QUESTION MY ENTIRE REAL ESTATE CAREER
One of the worst days I have ever had in real estate happened at Novare Mall, Shoprite Sangotedo, Lagos.
My team and I had gone prospecting. As we approached the mall, I noticed a man pushing a shopping cart towards his car.
I saw an opportunity.
I walked up to him and said:
“Hello sir, my name is Joe, and I work with… I’d like to tell you about some properties…”
Before I could finish my introduction, he cut me off.
“Is this how you go about harassing people? If you don’t have anything to do with your life, will you get out of my face?”
I froze.
I had never felt so embarrassed, humiliated, and ashamed.
I didn’t even enter the mall to continue prospecting with my team.
I turned around and went straight home.
On the way, I kept asking myself:
“Am I sure real estate is for me?”
“Maybe my mother was right. Maybe I should just get a real job.”
That night, I couldn’t eat. I couldn’t stop replaying the incident in my head.
The next day, during our team debrief, I poured out my heart to my team lead and told her I wasn’t sure I could continue in real estate.
To my greatest surprise…
She started laughing.
To be continued…
Lessons:
1. Sometimes, one person’s opinion of you is not a reflection of your value.
2. Rejection is often part of the price you pay for success.
3. Many people quit not because they are incapable, but because they experience one painful moment and assume it defines their future.
4. Every successful salesperson has a rejection story. Most people just don’t tell it.
5. The difference between those who succeed and those who don’t is often the decision to show up one more day.
Have you ever had a moment that made you question your career or business journey?
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