I get this, I truly do, & at the same time, texting is not an active conversation. It is written so people can get to it *when they have time*. Some people really need to chill on their textpectations. If you want an in-real-time conversation, pick up the phone or get in the car
i prefer a “i'm busy rn, but i love you and i will text you as soon as i’m available to talk” rather than going hours with no text back wondering wya