Carl Jung wrote about psychological differentiation… the process of becoming aware of the unconscious filters that shape how we see the world.
Most people move through life inside a bubble of assumptions, habits, and conditioned responses. In the digital age, algorithms have only strengthened that bubble.
But self-awareness cuts through it.
I was reminded of this at a recent conference on cultural awareness in the workplace.
People at my table suggested training sessions and posters.
Then a colleague, the one who had just said, “I don’t want to ask an Aboriginal person every time,” looked to me to gauge my response as the only Aboriginal person at the table.
Instead, I asked him directly:
How do you want to be treated?
With respect?
Listened to?
Safe to speak without being bullied for your views?
Every person at the table said yes.
And that is the truth beneath all the noise.
These are not cultural needs.
They are human needs.
Regardless of culture, background, politics, identity, or life experience, people want respect, dignity, fairness, and to be heard.
Differentiated perception lets you see past the surface, past the posters, the policies, the political agendas, the performative gestures, and even the social media narrative to the universal truth underneath:
People want to be treated like people.
When we move beyond assumptions and labels, we often find that what people need is remarkably similar.
Respect. Dignity. Fairness. A voice.
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