If you do not value yourself, never expect anyone to find value in you.
We've been taught and conditioned that our value is determined by other people's thoughts, their feelings, their words, their judgments.
That is why so many people are so insecure and they are emotional yo-yos because their emotions, their self-worth, and their value goes up and down based on someone saying something positive about them or something negative about them.
Someone feeling something positive about them or feeling something negative about them.
Your value is an internal thing. It's determined by you, by what you think of yourself, your belief in yourself. It's not external.
It is never determined by the words and opinions of others.
To truly understand your value, you have to acknowledge and embrace that your value is 100% determined by you.
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“Your Value Is Determined by You—Not Them” by Harry Petsanis, Mindset Consultant