From rishta parade objectification to being dolled for barat stage to being accepted only with a heavy dowry. You're being raised to be a product to be consumed by this society and it's expectations that never stop even after you cease to exist.
also on this note (hot take incoming) the whole concept of shaadi, dressing up for your ‘special day’ when you feel like a princess is delulu pro max. ur being served on a platter for public consumption and I understand looking NICE but the pomp and show is just not it