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hal yg akan gw kenalkan ke anak2 gw: - human rights - english and japanese - matematika teknik kimia - EXO is 9 - EREN JAEGER - marvel infinity saga - bimbingan menulis essay lpdp
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Replying to @ardisatriawan
Dalam pilpres, yang tidak ikut memilih ikut menanggung akibatnya. Dalam demo, yang tidak ikut demo ikut menikmati hasilnya. Itulah kenapa dalam kehidupan ini ada yang jadi manusia dan ada yang sekedar jadi orang.
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Demo mahasiswa dan buruh menghasilkan: 1) Jam kerja 8 jam sehari, lebih dari itu wajib dihitung lembur. 2) Ada upah minimum, UMR, buat buruh atau karyawan perusahaan. 3) UMR juga tiap tahun disesuaikan dengan inflasi dan kebutuhan hidup. Mau kaya gaji pokok PNS yang gak berubah dari tiga puluh tahun lalu? Kaya tunjangan fungsional dosen yang nominalnya gak berubah dari 2007? Tuh kalau gak pernah demo, suka-suka mereka. 4) THR juga hasil demo tahun 1960an. Kita masih nikmatin sampai hari ini. 5) BPJS ketenagakerjaan. 6) Cuti tahunan minimum 12 hari. 7) Reformasi. Suharto turun. Kalau nggak mungkin hari ini semua sosmed diblokir sama "Departemen Penerangan". Mungkin semua berita di TV cuma datang dari "Berita Malam" sama "Dunia Dalam Berita" punya TVRI dan direlay semua TV swasta. Pidato Presiden selalu live. Mau kalian dengerin "nyenyenye" live? *** Semua itu kita nikmati hari ini. Gitu banyak yang nyinyirin rakyat demo. Macet paling berapa jam sih?
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abis chatan sama scam (w pura pura kenal orang di ktp)
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Laughter is anti-inflammatory. Crying is regulating. Hugging is immunoprotective. Singing is vagal toning. Dancing is neurogenic. Joy is a biological necessity.
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normalize doing simple things that serve no purpose except making you happy
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indonesia negara hukum kalian tinggal di indonesia itu sebnarnya hukuman
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Conor Neill: "18 years of school trained you to ruin conversations" "You finish your pitch and the customer says, 'Your product is too expensive!' You arrive home, you're a few minutes late, your partner says, 'You are always late.' A dirty plate is left on the table... 'You never wash the dishes.' What do you say in this moment?" The problem: "Most of you... went through 14 years of school where you were taught one way to respond to questions. Teacher asks a question: 'How do you spell cats?' Student: 'C-A-T.' Teacher: 'What is the biological process called osmosis?' Student puts hand up, explains in detail the process through which cell membranes allow water to go from one side to the other." He continues: "For 14 years you've been taught that you receive and answer a question. If you went to university, you probably had another 3, 4 years where you gave answers to questions." On why answering is the worst response: "In real life, in persuasion, in getting to what the other person is really about, what their needs really are... the worst thing you can do is give an answer to a question." He explains: "If someone says 'your product is too expensive' and you say 'No it's not! It's only €1,000'... you've lost every chance to understand what else is behind their reasoning. If you get home and your partner says 'you're always late!' and you say 'No no no! Tuesday I definitely was here on time'... you're gonna have a crap weekend." The insight: "You've had 14... if not 18 years of training that you answer questions. And it's going to cause fights in your home life. It's going to cause problems at work. It means you're not selling anything. Because when someone says 'your product is too expensive'... that's not what their real issue is. When someone says 'I will have to speak to my boss'... that's not what their real issue is." On emotion and thinking: "When your partner says 'you're always late'... emotion goes up. And what happens? This part disconnects. The higher emotion goes... the lower thinking goes." The implication: "The way to make someone stupider is insult them, object to them, tell them they are wrong. When asked a question, there's an emotional reaction." On why you must practice: "If you don't practice this response, you're not going to be able to do it in the moment." He lists the objections: "'You're always late!'... 'You never wash the dishes!'... 'You never do your part of the share!'... 'Your product is too expensive!'... 'Your competitor is better!'... 'You failed us 3 years ago!'... 'I don't trust your company!' If you don't practice this habit of not giving an answer... you're not going to be able to do it in the heat of the moment." Neill calls this "Conversation Aikido": "Martial arts are about using the energy, the force of the opponent against them. In judo, if someone punches you, you pull their arm and allow the energy to keep flowing. In Aikido, the concept is you go towards the punch. Go towards the energy." He explains: "If someone punches you... if someone asks you a question... if someone objects, says you're wrong... the Aikido method is go towards and see the world from their view. In Aikido, you learn to go towards the punch, dodge it, and look... and you are seeing the world in the same direction as the person who's attacking you." The technique: "When you are asked a question or given an objection... say 'I understand' and repeat in your words what they're saying. Then give an open question back." Example: "'Your product is too expensive!' → 'I understand that money is an important factor for you. What other criteria will be used in taking this decision?'" He adds: "It takes some habit to start to be able to give 'I understand' and fill in good words. You will have to work on this quite a few times over the next 10 years to find the set of words that captures what the other person feels... what's behind it." He explains with an example: "'You're always late!' → 'I understand you feel frustrated.' 'I understand you feel let down.' Then: 'What can we do now?' 'What happened during the day?' 'What would you like to talk about?'" On unlearning: "This takes 14 years of it being drummed into you... 4 more, 18 if you went to university. It's gonna take you at least 18 years to get out of the habit of responding to questions with answers." The lesson: "We live in an uncertain world and we don't have the answers. But by giving the answer, we shut down the possibility of hearing what's really going on in the other person's mind... in the other person's business... what other things are going on." On the 4th question: "I guarantee that if you do it 4 times... the answer to your 4th open question begins to be the real underlying need, issue, interest of the person you're listening to."
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Saya harap kalian ingat kalau di demo tahun lalu kawan-kawan SEA menyumbang ke warga lokal dengan cara belanja via Grab. Berapa banyak untung yang kalian raih selama minggu itu? Lalu sekarang kalian kayak gini attitudenya ke mitra? Nggak tahu terima kasih. Pengecut.
Kami memahami kekhawatiran yang muncul. Grab menghormati hak Mitra untuk menyampaikan aspirasi dan menegaskan bahwa Mitra tidak akan diputus kemitraannya karena mengikuti aksi penyampaian pendapat. (1/2)
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all these mountains to climb will i everest?
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“Kalau dipanggil tuhan, saya tetap monitor kalian dari atas” Bro di alam kubur :
Hari ini aku masak roasted fish bumbu kuning 😍💕
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One day aku bakal hidup tanpa perlu ada di survival mode lagi. aamiin
Please get addicted to thinking everything will always work out for you.
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KAWAN-KAWAN 🐈🇻🇦MEMANG BANYAK BETUL KREATIVITASNYA 😭😭😭😭😭😭
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"Kamu mahasiswa yang masuk PTN lewat UTBK, bukan mandiri; jadi ada kontribusi rakyat dalam pendidikan mu" SIALL KERENN BET ANJIRRRR NYOKAP NYAAA
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hey so you can use this to protest
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aku sedihh liat ini… karena aku tau kalo from the very beginning WE NEVER HATED INDONESIA. not even a bit. yang kita benci tuh korupsinya, nepotisme, keserakahan oligarki, dan orang yg dzalim. we love this country so much, and that’s why it hurts to see it getting ruined by them
bener bener emosional… we sang indonesia pusaka sebelum mundur
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Ide bagus 😭😭😭
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“TIDAK ADA SURAT IZIN DEMO DARI BEM UI.” LAH KOK MAHASISWA BELOM DATANG, GAS AIR MATA UDAH ADA??? kalau misalnya gak ada surat izin dari BEM harusnya kalian terperanjat, terhentak, kaget, tak menyangka, bergumam sendu dan menatap nanar.
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