Okay letβs break this down. Sex therapist Iβm assuming is recommending to make out every night with your spouse. We do not know how many times they are having sex. Nowhere did it say that they are making out and not having sex or doing it every single night for that matter. Next, βwhat if he gets turned onβ this does not mean that these women are trying to deny their husband every night! This is just a question of how you do a daily make out ritual on the days you are maybe not feeling like being sexually intimate when your husband expects sex after making out. Sometimes people donβt want to do it and that is normal as long as itβs not constant. You are projecting a bunch of random info into this that is simply not there lol
there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.