True story:
My wife was getting into gardening and asked for a wheelbarrow for her birthday.
I was like nope and got her a spa treatment and flowers.
When I gave them to her she was disappointed.
She said the gift was nice, but she really wanted was the damn wheelbarrow!
This will be unpopular
But if your woman asks you for something specific & you ignore her & get something "better" instead it's not surprising she's going to be annoyed
This is literally the opposite of cherishing. It's a passive aggressive covert contract
Apex nice guy shit