When I first became a parent to boys, all I hoped for was that they would grow up surrounded by love, care, stability, and happiness. Over the years, they have grown into kind, caring, funny, thoughtful young men, and I couldn’t be prouder of them. But parenting teenage boys has taught me something I didn’t fully appreciate when they were little. As boys grow older, they start testing boundaries. They question rules. They push back. They want more independence. Sometimes they seem absolutely convinced that their parents know nothing at all. And while love remains essential, I’ve come to realise that boys also benefit from hearing certain messages from other voices they respect—people who can reinforce values, challenge excuses, model responsibility, and sometimes say exactly what mum has been saying all along, but in a way that lands differently. It has made me reflect on something simple: We spend years making sure our boys are educated but, how much time do we actually spend intentionally preparing them for manhood? Who is helping them navigate responsibility, relationships, resilience, emotional intelligence, character, and purpose? Who is helping prepare them for adulthood and for the harsh world out there? I’d love to hear from parents, mentors, educators, and young men themselves. What experiences, conversations, or people had the greatest impact on helping you become the person you are today? And for parents, what has raising teenage boys taught you?
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