The Evolution Of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating
By David M. Buss
@ProfDavidBuss
"Humans don't seem well designed for dispassionate intellectual discourse about domains that have profound personal relevance."
This book was a fascinating romp through the politically charged mine field of mate selection and sex differences. Buss-who has written volumes on this subject-explains the subject in an avuncular way, with very little jargon. Eloquent and yet simple may be the best way to phrase it. People with no knowledge of the field could easily read and enjoy this book.
Chapter 2: What Women Want
"Undependable people, in contrast, provide erratically and inflict heavy costs on their mates. In a study of newlywed couples, my lab found that emotionally unstable men were especially costly to women."
Chapter 4: Casual Sex
"A lover my also serve as a potential replacement for a woman's regular mate if he should desert, become ill or injured, prove to be infertile, or die, which were not unusual events in ancestral environments."
Chapter 6: Staying Together
"Despite these similarities, there are intriguing gender differences in the content and focus of jealously and in the specific events that trigger jealousy."