i used to buy into the idea that kids are expensive.
then i sat with a friend who said he needed $2 million in liquidity before he could have kids. didn't think much of it at the time.
a few months later i was sitting with a man who made 60% less than me. big family. happy kids. no stress about it.
started paying attention after that. met business owners with families. met guys working regular jobs with families. all making it work.
kids aren't expensive. your choice of woman is.
if she needs the kids in designer clothes and the latest everything, yeah it's going to cost you.
if she's a down to earth woman who actually wants to be a mother. who comes from a family that doesn't chase trends. who sees the joy in raising kids and not in showing them off.
it's not expensive.
loads of people with far less money than you are raising great kids right now.
if you actually want to improve the world, the move isn't posting another youtube video.
it's having children and raising them well.
Having children
Do not understand why people have so few children nowadays.
And really....money or costs are not the reason. We all know poor people in the past had loads of children while parents were working all the time, and they still turned out ok. Not every kid needs the newest iphone either.
Ok, if you are going full inner development and recluse mode for some years and really want to get to the core of your being, i get it, you want and need to be alone a while, i did that too, but most on here do not want that anyway
Together with inner development, children are without a doubt the biggest joy in my life: they are so pure in the moment, one can learn so much from them how they can have fun with the simplest things, they forgive quickly, they are so open and free of spirit, amazing uncontaminated energy. Just incredible really
Have kids, you will not regret it. The advantages far outweigh the disadvantages, especially for crypto-dudes and girls that lack purpose in life. And that is coming from me who loves being alone and lives as a recluse for a long time, i would never have wanted to miss this experience