Our waiter was cracking jokes, refilling drinks, total sunshine. He made my kids laugh. I went to the bathroom and took a wrong turn near the kitchen. I saw him leaning against the walk-in freezer door, eyes closed, looking like the weight of the world was crushing him. He took one deep, shaky breath, slapped a smile back on his face, and walked back out onto the floor saying, 'Who needs more chips?' Be nice to service workers. You have no idea what tragedy they are navigating between appetizers.