Peer-to-peer support for women dealing with patriarchal Family Courts. Lengthy child custody cases are a lethality risk marker for femicide. #WeSpoke

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May 27th marks the 3rd anniversary of Catherine Youssef Kassenoff’s tragic passing. Receiving that email from her was such a surreal moment. I so wanted it not to be true. 😢 To say the family court system failed her is an understatement. 3 years later, it’s still just as bad and more women are losing their lives - just because they want a divorce. Take a moment to say a prayer for Catherine. 🙏🏼 May she be remembered as the brave woman and mother that she was. #catherinekassenoff #iamcatherine #familycourt
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This should terrify us all. Let that sink in. Murder charge.
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Georgia woman charged with murder for taking abortion pills wsbtv.com/news/local/georgia…
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The family court system is designed to isolate you—but it didn't count on us finding each other. WeSpoke was built on a simple truth: no woman should have to navigate the family court system alone. If the system won’t provide transparency, we’ll create it. Join us: Membership is free. Support is free. Unity is free. Post "Unity" in the comments and we will send you the application form. #IWD #InternationalWomensDay #BreakThePattern #Wespoke
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Good guys don’t abuse their family. There are so many men who act the part of the good guy but really have a dark and toxic inner drive. They lure good women and keep the mask on for decades. #itsallmen
"Good guys" can commit sexual violence against women and it’s not just a "few bad apples", says philosopher Manon Garcia, who attended every day of Dominique Pelicot’s trial and has since written the book, Living With Men: Reflections on the Pelicot trial.
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State Supreme Court Justice Sherri Eisenpress was facing charges by the state Commission on Judicial Conduct, will resign in April from the bench in Rockland County, NY. 🎬 Credit NBC News New York Reporter Sarah Wallace with WeSpoke member Sai Malena Jimenez-Fogarty. #Familycourt #judicialconduct nbcnewyork.com/video/news/gr…
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[Family Courts] don’t protect mothers and children from violence, and even contribute to its escalation....because they operate according to principles that undermine the mother-child bond. Undermining motherhood II: Dangerous fathers and Family Courts by Renee Gerlich open.substack.com/pub/reneeg…

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Minnesota looks a lot like Gilead from The Handmaid's Tale. Women who've experienced government overreach in Family Courts, know all about state-level power and control. #alexpretti #reneegood #ICE #minnesota #DHS
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This is a must listen to fully comprehend why Minnesota has been targeted by the Trump Administration and their ICE flying monkeys. Coercive control at the highest level.
Pam Bondi just sent a letter to Minnesota officials saying ICE will leave if the state turns over its voter database to Trump. Guess what? This has never been about safety or immigration. It’s a pretext for Trump to take over elections in swing states.
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Won't you join us in cancelling premium? They've gone too far and aren't taking action. #Grok
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There are narcissists, and there are malignant narcissists. There are malignant narcissists, and there are malignant narcissists who undergo injury and become bent on retribution. There are injured malignant narcissists bent on retribution and there are injured malignant narcissists bent on retribution who possess nuclear codes. There are injured malignant narcissists bent on retribution who possess nuclear codes and then there is one injured malignant narcissist bent on retribution who possesses nuclear codes, who is old, unwell, nuts, medicated, in decline, owned by his disorders, surrounded by insulation and amplification, immersed in immunity, and whose visions of grandeur are so endless and unquenchable, that they include committing war crimes, militarizing municipalities against their wishes, protecting pedophiles, threatening allies, and tossing his own supporters off health care. And THIS is the guy the Republican Party walks behind in lockstep. And THIS is the guy that much of the legacy press keeps normalizing.
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What we all have witnessed from the Trump Administration in the past week since Renee Good was callously murdered, feels very familiar to women who have experienced power and control abuse from their partners and from family court professionals. Regardless of your political views, Renee did not deserve to die. She has been blamed, smeared and used as a clear message to silence and oppress us all. We know this misogynistic playbook well. #reneegood #IceOutNow #AbolishICE #insurrection #Minnesota #authoritarian
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In the US, default shared custody is gaining steam and is a dangerous precedent for women and children. 🎧 Clip from Ep 13 - Motherhood on Trial #familycourt #familycourtuk #divorcesupport #childsupport #fypシ
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It is shameful what the Wisconsin Family Courts have done to Julie Valdez. Simply because she was trying to protect herself and her children from their father. #julievaldez #familycourt cbs58.com/news/anonymous-don…
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For now she’s free from jail, after a guardian angel stepped in to pay her bond. But she still has to face the family court, who will continue to punish mothers who dare speak up about abuse.
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Shame on you @DailyMail. This mother had fought hard with family court to make them understand how dangerous the father was. As is typical, the court did not believe her. The patriarchal court protected his interest every step of the way, didn’t care about her or the children.
The mother pleaded with the court to stop her ex-husband from seeing their daughters. The judge denied her. He killed all three children. Yet somehow, the blame is still placed on the mother. It is no surprise this article was written by a man.
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21 Jul 2025
Another innocent child killed whilst in custody of her father. Melina Frattolin was just 9 years old and likely trusted her dad. Was he upset about paying child support? Or was he trying to punish and inflict suffering on his ex-wife for their 2019 divorce? This is why we CANNOT have 50/50 joint custody because #itsallmen #femicide #mensviolence #melinafrattolin #familycourt foxnews.com/us/canadian-fath…
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