I think a lot of autistic/ADHD people grow up feeling unloved because nobody teaches us that we're missing the positive social cues too.
Half the time we don't realize people want us around.
And by the time we do, we've already convinced ourselves they don't.
How exactly are autistic/ADHD people meant to find a soulmate? Half the time we're either avoiding people, forgetting to text back, or accidentally turning every conversation into a TED Talk.