A family will raise their daughter with zero concept of personal boundaries, privacy, or self-ownership — no part of her inner or outer world left just to herself, her “no” ignored, her space constantly accessed — and then suddenly expect her to exercise self-worth and firm sexual boundaries with men. Like, surprise. We actually have to teach and model these things for our children, or at least not actively erode them… that your body is yours, your inner world is yours, your discomfort matters, and your “no” will be respected. You can’t train someone to override themselves for years and then expect a clear, embodied “no” to emerge out of the blue one day.