You really should get out more often. Estonia, Latvia, Lithuania, Romania, Finland, Sweden and several others are all increasing spending and readiness. And more than half of what’s spent to help Ukraine comes from Europe.
This is Europe’s fight, but they are mostly too weak to stand up to Putin. I’ve yet to see any nation, other than beautiful Poland, do anything to significantly rearm or prepare for war. The rest are just hoping we will bail them out so they don’t have to slash their welfare €.