“Jesus wept.” John 11:35
Mother’s Day is bittersweet for me.
I’m grateful my own mother is still here with us today. I know how precious that is.
But every Mother’s Day also reminds me of what was stolen from my daughter, Katie.
Katie was warm, funny, thoughtful, and deeply caring. As she grew older, I would often catch myself imagining the future she deserved. I knew she would have made an incredible mother one day.
I pictured her raising children, building a family, becoming the kind of steady and loving woman people naturally leaned on.
I looked forward to my later years watching her thrive, growing into that role, and someday holding the grandchildren she would have brought into this world.
All of that was stolen in a second.
Not by fate.
Not by unavoidable tragedy.
But by reckless political choices.
Katie was killed by an illegal immigrant who should never have been in a position to take an innocent life, a man who exploited the gaps, incentives, protections, and failures deliberately built into Illinois policies that have virtually no meaningful guardrails to protect citizens or legal immigrants alike.
In Illinois, those who break the rules too often receive protections and privileges ordinary citizens would never be afforded. And when disaster follows, the same politicians who created these conditions refuse accountability.
Governor JB Pritzker presents himself as compassionate and visionary. But real leadership requires accountability for outcomes and not just applause for intentions.
People say he is a smart man. If that is true, then he understood the risks and foreseeable consequences of these policies. He understood innocent people could pay the price.
Yet those risks were accepted anyway in service of ideology, national political ambition, and personal advancement.
That is what makes this so painful.
Katie was not collateral damage to me.
She was my daughter.
And still, there has been no transparency, no meaningful accountability, and no courage from Illinois leadership willing to challenge the governor’s agenda. Too many elected officials fall in line out of fear of political retaliation, pressure, or the enormous influence of inherited wealth being wielded against dissent.
That is not healthy leadership.
That is political intimidation masquerading as virtue.
Meanwhile, the national media continues to elevate stories that fit preferred narratives while minimizing or ignoring others that challenge them. Selective outrage is not journalism. Omitting uncomfortable truths is its own form of dishonesty.
As I sit here today, I do not only mourn Katie.
I mourn the children she will never have.
The Mother’s Days she will never celebrate.
The family gatherings that will never happen.
The grandchildren I will never hold.
The future that was erased.
That is the true cost of reckless policies detached from reality and shielded from criticism.
Katie deserved better.
Katie should have had many Mother's Days.
Our family deserved better.
Illinois failed her.
Happy Heavenly Mother’s Day, Katie.
I love you.
And I will never stop speaking your name.