What Pauline Hanson said a few years back in parliament about domestic violence genuinely shocked me, not because it was controversial, but because of how dismissive it felt toward women who have survived abuse.
Telling people to "move on", "get over the hate" and suggesting domestic violence is too often used as a tactic to stop fathers seeing their children completely ignores the reality many women and children live through every single day. Because of her own bias and her sons DV conviction.
Domestic violence is not just a bad breakup. It is not two people simply struggling to co-parent after separation. It can involve years of
psychological abuse, coercive control, intimidation, fear, manipulation, financial control and physical violence that leaves lasting trauma long after the relationship ends.
Women are not protecting themselves and their children because they are bitter or vindictive. Many are trying to survive situations that have deeply impacted their safety, mental health and wellbeing.
What also disturbed me was Malcolm Roberts suggesting men "lash out in violence" because of the family court system.
Violence is not an uncontrollable reaction caused by separation or custody disputes. It is a choice. Thousands of men experience heartbreak, conflict and family court proceedings without becoming abusive toward women or children.
Excusing violence or framing it as understandable because a man is frustrated sends an incredibly dangerous message.
What makes this even more concerning is that One Nation also wants to reduce abortion rights in Australia. So at the same time women are being told to stay quiet about abuse, "work together" and move on from trauma, they are also facing political attempts to reduce their autonomy over their own bodies.
You cannot claim to stand for women while minimising domestic violence and supporting policies that reduce women's rights and choices.
Women should not have to soften their trauma to make politicians comfortable.
They should not be expected to quietly carry abuse, fear and lifelong emotional damage while being told they are overreacting or motivated by spite.
Australia should be moving forward when it comes to women's safety, bodily autonomy and dignity, not backwards. Women deserve to be listened to, protected and taken seriously, not dismissed as angry ex-partners who simply need to "move on".