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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
Jun 13
also just watched a @HeidiPriebe1 video about avoidant attachment that made me tear up where she talks about how avoidants tend to be self-aware but not relationally aware because when they are dating someone they hold themselves to the standard of "what would a good partner do this in the moment" rather than "what do I authentically feel in this moment, and what are the implications of that" because they learned at a young age that safety resides in being the person who does the right thing. and actually a sign of real security is being willing to express emotional states and boundaries that might upset the other person and show vulnerability instead of assuming the role of the stoic, perfect caretaker at all times. It really made me reflect on how I was much more avoidant when I thought that the only way I could be loved or safe was by showing up constantly as the ideal partner (which obviously ended up being a crippling amount of pressure and would end with me desperately fantasizing about escaping the relationship so I would be free of that particular burden) and how freeing it is to have learned that I can be loved even when I'm imperfect or upsetting the other person. And it makes me feel sad for the people I know who struggle to fully understand that your feelings should inform your obligations. In Bluets Maggie Nelson writes that "Love is not consolation. It is light." Earning secure attachment for me has the process of learning that over and over
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
The issue with behaving poorly because you feel 'entitled' to due to whatever hurt you're carrying, e.g. acting out at family, no attempts to avoid losing temper, being cold and curt is that eventually one day you realise the mask has become face and you no longer have a choice
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
Replying to @ax_ferg
Chinese patisserie magic realism
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
Jun 10
for a long time I thought relationships were bottlenecked by how much someone cared so I didn’t understand why I could be in a situation where someone loved me a ton but the relationship wasn’t working. but actually Capacity is Everything
Jun 10
“relationships do not rise to the level of your intentions; they fall to the level of your capacity under pressure” is such an amazing and true line
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
a common failure mode for intimate relationships is the other person subconsciously conscripting you into being less honest. “let’s pretend you don’t have this need so the relationship can keep being good” as a mutual pact
I’ve learned that you cannot reliably change other people, but you can change yourself and that can greatly improve the dynamic. however, most of the ways you can positively change yourself result in being more honest, not less, which is an unappetizing prospect for many
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
It is crazy how a single moment of misunderstanding can become so toxic that it makes you forget the thousands of lovely moments you have spent together with someone. Anger has a terrible way of rewriting history.
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this isn't even on reddit it's just (probably ai generated) ragebait
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
this is EXACTLY why i tell people that if you want to meet your bf/gf, go do things alone!! being with friends creates a social shield. being alone creates an opening and makes you WAY more approachable (and likely TO approach too). being alone in public is so rare, that simply existing on a park bench by yourself opens a lot more doors than you’d think.
i’ve been sitting alone on a park bench for 30mins and have been approached 3 times maybe your husband is just walking the dog and waiting to find you
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
From 1966 to 2025 we dropped sterile flies over South America that ate screwworm and thus prevented them from spreading, but the le epic efficient cracked coders at DOGE thought this was a silly waste of the ~0 dollars it cost us.
NEWS: Screwworm has been detected in Texas, USDA confirmed - marking a serious threat to US cattle and other animals Larvae of the parasite were found in the umbilical cord of a 3 week old calf Screwworm was eradicated from the US in 1966
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how does it make any sense to blame "$7 million dollars of AI, Crypto, and AIPAC money" after dropping over $10 million of your own money into the race
JUST IN: Saikat Chakrabarti has conceded the race. It will be Connie Chan vs. Scott Wiener in the contest to replace Nancy Pelosi. “I want to congratulate Sen. Scott Wiener & Supervisor Connie Chan on their victories & thank everyone who participated in this election."
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
I had a realization a few years ago that I don't need to figure out why this person is doing a certain behavior I dislike. All that matters is I know I don't like the behavior and I can leave
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at the end of the day, Saikat has never been in an elected position to be held accountable for promises he's made. Connie has and that's why to me, her stance on Palestine is one that I actually have faith in
"Unlike Chakrabarti, Chan has an actual voting record in San Francisco, and you can check it out. She’s never, ever been with AIPAC on anything." 48hills.org/2026/05/the-very…
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
We did not report that Chan has taken money directly from AIPAC. We reported that a super PAC network backing her has taken hundreds of thousands of dollars from AIPAC. I suspect the motivation is the one Kate points to here, that they think Chan is easier to beat on the general.
Not clear to me that Connie Chan has actually taken any money from the Israel lobby or if an unaffiliated PAC ran an add for her as they did w/ Bushra (to increase their fave Scott Wiener’s chances) Would like to see some reporting independent of Saikat’s campaign.
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
Here's a statement from Connie Chan on this ridiculous last minute smear campaign by Saikat Chakrabarti. This is so dirty. And really belies how real activism can be captured and subverted. This guy is manufacturing Zionist conspiracy theories against critics of Israel.
Last night, news broke that a confirmed AIPAC front group established a new “pop-up” PAC called “Pro-Choice Majority Action” to flood a massive amount of last-minute cash in support of our opponent. By strategically launching this group on May 1st, they ensured their mandatory FEC disclosures wouldn't become public until weeks after the California primary. They want to keep voters in the dark until after their ballots are cast on June 2nd. AIPAC wants to keep me out of the top two for a simple reason: Of the three leading candidates, I am the only one who named the genocide in Gaza and called for a full arms embargo on Israel from the start, and I have a decade-long record to prove it is not just talk. AIPAC has had me on their radar for years, because I co-founded Justice Democrats to help elect the leaders they fear most in Congress — including Rashida Tlaib and Ilhan Omar, both of whom have proudly endorsed our campaign. AIPAC sees me as their biggest threat, so they will do whatever it takes to try to defeat me. And today, it seems I am the only major candidate in this race not backed by the Israel Lobby. I’m running for Congress because I believe working people deserve good paying union jobs that allow them to get ahead and the wealthy should pay more in taxes. I believe in Medicare for All and abolishing ICE. And I believe America should stop spending trillions on endless wars and genocides and instead invest in healthcare, housing, and education at home. As voters head to the polls this Tuesday, let’s send a strong message to AIPAC: stay the hell out of San Francisco. And to my opponent benefiting from this spending: if you agree, call on Pro-Choice Majority Action to stop any further spending in this race and immediately release the identities of all of its donors.
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
All good engineers know you should NEVER EVER read published patents
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
the past is a foreign country
i mounted a tiny microphone on my apartment balcony to listen for any birds passing by and built a site to collage them as they're heard
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
귀걸이 위치 때문에 해외에서 화제중인 미피 진주귀걸이를 한 소녀 진품 전시회가 일본 오사카에서 열리면서 진주귀걸이를 한 미피가 홍보 게스트로 옴 여기서 진주귀걸이가 미피 얼굴에 걸렸는데 '미피 귀는 거기가 아니라고' 이거 땜에 해외 네티즌들 사이에서 찬반투표가 생김 1. (둘짤 왼쪽) 지금처럼 그림과 비슷하게 눈 옆이 맞다 2. (둘짤 오른쪽) 미피 귀에 맞게 올라가는게 맞다 3. 귀를 내려서 귀걸이를 건다 1이 맞지 않나...했는데 선택지를 보고 마음이 바뀜. 이건 3번이지!!!! 3번이 감다살이지 다들 어케 생각해?? 우리도 투표해보자
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
3/ Texas, another abortion ban state, has amended its law to make clear that doctors don’t need to wait for infection in similar cases. Arkansas and other states have not.
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
Liberals think you can peace process this away. They think you can just coexist this away. That you can protest this away. There are Palestinians who laid their lives on the line to stop this, they fought every single day to stop the theft of their land, the extermination of their people. Don’t let anyone ever convince you to condemn or forget those who used their last breaths to stop this.
This photo from @ForensicArchi showing Israel building a new military base over the ruins of Khan Younis is like nothing I’ve ever seen
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kevin (miffy's version) retweeted
Happening now: Garden Grove city council getting hammered by residents after the chemical disaster by GKN’s weapons manufacturing facility, which supplies key components for Israel’s fighting jets. They are demanding the city permanently shuts down the facility.
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