Some observations on the Holly Elmore / @RatOrthodox / @Aella_Girl / PauseAI / pdku situation — focusing on public timelines and patterns rather than assigning blame: - 2021: Holly divorces her first husband after an 11-year relationship. - Around the same time (2021), Holly and Ronny’s public Facebook posts begin. - May 2022: Holly messages Aella on Facebook, questioning her boyfriend Ronny’s loyalty to her. - Feb 2023: Holly marries Ronny (her second marriage). - March 2024: Holly and Ronny split. Holly posts that she’ll “always love him". - April/May 2024: Holly meets her current fiancé, Alvaro Cuba. - This week (June 2026): Holly publishes an open letter framed as an “apology to Aella”, warning about Ronny’s alleged negging, lovebombing, and abusive patterns. Additional public notes: - In since-deleted blog posts, at least one of Alvaro’s prior partners allegedly described similar behavior from him, particularly cheating and "negging". (Reported by a trusted source.) - At least two women from Ronny’s polycule have publicly supported him and pushed back on the claims that he is abusive. - Ronny is currently Aella’s manager. Aella has stated they are not romantic; they only slept together at orgies years after his divorce from Holly (he was her 100th partner at one, and she tattooed “100” on him in May 2025). - Holly’s open letter leverages adjacency to a higher-profile figure (Aella) to add moral weight and visibility to her claims — a structural parallel to the exact dynamic she was critiquing (Aella Yud photo). For those still reading: Aella didn’t “steal” anyone's husband — the timeline is public and clear. Holly, who is otherwise quite logical, demonstrates extremely rapid attachment/commitment cycles (second marriage — split — third engagement in ~2 years) and poor calibration in evaluating men. Ronny remains embedded in Aella’s professional and social circles. Public evidence and Aella’s own statements do not appear to support claims that he poses a safety threat to her. Additional screenshots below to clarify timeline. Personal, anecdotal note: FWIW I'm really sorry to post all of this, Holly. I hope you're able to find what closure looks like to you — and find a way to move past this without repeating old habits. You're a good person who has a tendency to let men walk all over you and maybe can't evaluate that as much in relationships. While I strongly believe Ronny has grown since your divorce, I have no doubt that your relationship with Ronny was toxic, and processing that closure is an important next step before you rush into your next marriage.

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Throwback Sunday: Im Februar waren wir im EU-Parlament. 🏛️ PauseAI hat dort ein Veranstaltung organisiert bei der Abgeordnete verschiedener Parteien und Stuart Russel, einer der bekanntesten KI Professoren, über die Risiken und Unkontrollierbarkeit von KI diskutiert haben. 👇️

The FT: AI is dangerous, we must regulate it and we will probably fail. Right about everything except the last part. A US-China disarmament agreement shouldn’t be a fantasy. It's the only solution that matches the scope of the problem. People have stopped arms races before. PauseAI is building the public pressure so that political action is the only option.

i think this is ronny and the lady runs pauseAI so, hilarious autist drama

I'm gonna bow out - for the record I'm not very informed but am pretty sure I've heard nothing but criticism of PauseAI from people whose opinions I trust, so definitely not interested in defending them generally, or this woman specifically, who I think is totally crashing out. My only point is that I think this is (sadly) pretty common human behaviour so don't think there's much of a Bayes factor in it, whatever your priors are.

🧮 Una IA interna de OpenAI refutó una conjetura de Erdős abierta desde 1946. Tim Gowers y otros 8 matemáticos verificaron la prueba. @OKubu54 (ICMAT-CSIC · Voluntario de PauseAI) la analiza este lunes y la sitúa en la curva de autonomía de METR. 🗓️ 15 jun · 19:00 · online · en inglés 👉 meetup.com/es-ES/effective-a…

gotta hand it to the @PauseAI folks, I did not think that would work and certainly not in such an absurd way

"We want rules, but we can't afford to slow down." Sound familiar? It's the same line from Altman. From Amodei. From every lab racing to the finish. MEP Brando Benifei called it what it is: a rhetorical trap that's blocking any real global framework. The arms race narrative is a political choice, and we can choose differently. #PauseAI #AIRace #AIRegulation #EUAIAct #ExistentialRisk

View the whole discussion on our YouTube channel: youtu.be/gCM5mrJOYp8?si=8EY2…

Victory! We made it happen #PauseAI #PauseIA