Men act like men because they are men.
Ellen has to censor herself because she is a woman trying to project stereotypes as to what she thinks a man is.
She can never understand those things, because she is trying to see, replicate, and explain them through a female lense.
This ideology is a cancer.
She is a womansplaining maleness in order to assuage her own ego in some twisted need for public and self approval.
Good. Grief.
She's hyper-monitoring herself and self-censoring her own behaviour so that she adheres strictly to how men around her act.