If you want to understand men better, just look at all the movies they’ve made, books they’ve written, games they invent when they’re young, and video games they play as adults.
Almost every single one is about a young man being thrust into a position or situation he doesn’t know if he can overcome. Many times he actually believes he can’t, so he initially refuses the challenge. Reluctantly, he is forced out of the comfort of his home by an unlikely group of future friends or an imposing threat on his life or the life of the woman he loves.
In the end, he rises above, he wins, he conquers. He conquers first himself and then he conquers the threat.
Men are made for impossible situations and daring feats. They are born with a heroes heart. This is innate.
I’ve watched it myself in my husband as he figures out how to provide a desirable quality of life for his growing family. I’ve watched as he’s pursued that more and more aggressively over time. And I’m watching it again but in a different way with my son and the games he invents.
This is the heart that society is trying so hard to quash. And women are the ones who can help protect it…