So a dialog popped up saying Windows needed to restart to update, with restart and remind me later buttons. I pressed escape, which restarted, interrupting my work, because it totally makes sense for escape to restart instead of remind me later. Then the update failed... again.
Here's the thing, Windows. I don't want to restart to apply the Windows 11 update because the last 30 times I've tried, it's failed and rolled back. And then Windows downloads the same update again, and around and around we go. It's a good thing I don't have a download quota.