From THE WAY OF MEN WITH MAIDS:
Both grown men and infants are mesmerized by a woman’s breasts. The hungry baby will look up at her, reaching out and sucking for dear life. He’ll cry if she doesn’t feed him. A grown man making love to his wife will give her breasts plenty of attention, but the energy is completely different. He’s looking down at her with approval and delight: affirming her femininity with his desire. She’s not “feeding” him with sex; rather, he’s giving her his seed to fertilize her to create life—a baby she will nurse with her breasts.
If the man acts like a craving infant, pouting if she doesn’t give him what he wants, then the woman will have almost a visceral response of disgust. The “ick.” Women see this as “creepy”, because you’re using her to fulfill your existential lack, not inviting her into a full life. A man who acts like a baby is a terrible lover.
But I wanna suck on mommy’s milkies 🥺🥺