yeah, my model of attraction is the BoomLoop(tm) model where initial attraction can trigger more attraction in the other party, it gets self-reinforcing. But it needs someone to be Obviously Interested. I think many women are only interested only after the guy has shown interest first. The model predicts that it's more likely that women ask me out first than the opposite (historically true, not as true lately). My model is that demisexuality is something to be overcome not accepted, though this view has so many haters hah.